What do the Romantic Bond types mean?

SOULMATE

You have found the most rare and exceptional bond you could have with someone. Soulmates are the most rare connections. This level of bond indicates that there’s an overwhelming presence of attractive, amazing, and life-changing qualities between you. Additionally, any fundamental conflicts between you two are so minimal that you might not even notice them - or there might not be any at all. You two likely feel incredibly drawn to each other and understood. Your attraction has gravity and power.

This relationship has the potential to last for the long term. It could feel especially easy and enjoyable to maintain. The only exception would occur if the timing is off between you. If one or both of you is going through a challenging cycle, or there are other obstacles such as geographical distance or being in different life stages, then the relationship might struggle to take off.

EXTRAORDINARY 

This is an incredibly special and remarkable connection. Your dynamic is magnetic and has the potential to be life-changing; it’s also rare. Challenges between the two of you are few or nonexistent. Right away, there’s likely a feeling of being powerfully attracted to each other - and at the same time incredibly understood. The connections that have brought you together are so exhilarating and bring such a feeling of hope and future possibility that you may find that it’s easy to commit to each other. 

You two have amazing long-term potential, because you’re unlikely to encounter the kinds of problems that plague most relationships. The compatibility of your bond offers a greater sense of ease, and comfort than is typical in most connections. The only exception could involve your timing. If either of you is in the midst of a challenging cycle, or there are other obstacles such as geographical distance or being in different life stages it may hinder the relationship’s ability to thrive at this time. 

POWERFUL

This is an exceptional connection. You could feel  an incredibly strong pull drawing you two together. Your dynamic together can be the basis for building something meaningful and lasting. You have multiple amazing connections and your conflicts aren’t enough of a factor to outweigh the good stuff. Your relationship is very significant and could affect you in exciting and unpredictable ways.

While there are potential sources of friction, if you can acknowledge them and communicate openly with each other, then they don’t have to be a problem at all. This is truly one of the best connections you can have with someone - all the possibilities are there - it’s just a matter of managing any places of vulnerability. 

Additionally, should either of you be in the midst of a challenging cycle or encounter obstacles such as being in different life stages, or geographical distance from one another, the relationship may have difficulty reaching its full potential.

MEANINGFUL 

Yours is a special relationship - you two have amazing potential. There’s a strong dynamic of attraction between you and a basis for a solid and lasting connection. However, you two also have some challenges to contend with and you will need to be honest about them with each other. How your relationship progresses depends on how you both choose to respond to the challenges you face.

This connection is likely to be significant and have a powerful effect on you both. Being open with each other will be key to this relationship progressing. If you encounter issues, instead of denying or ignoring them, try to be upfront and transparent. Ideally you can communicate and work through them together. Regardless of the outcome, know that this bond could change your life in unexpected ways. 

COMPLEX 

You two have a rich and dynamic connection. While it is complex, that doesn’t mean it’s bad. Your pattern together just makes things more interesting.

Often, people with this kind of bond are drawn to each other because they have one or two special links that create the attraction. It's quite possible that these connections are life-changing, yet at the same time, various conflicts are also present. 

The complexity between you is coming from that push and pull of being drawn to each other, but also having to deal with certain realities that come from the obstacles between you. 

It might be that you two are inherently different people, which could cause friction. Or possibly, you might be excited by this - like when opposites attract; it all depends on how you look at it.

It’s important to acknowledge these challenging dynamics as they will be hard to ignore. If you two can communicate honestly and thoughtfully with each other, you have the basis for something amazing to emerge. It’s important to remember that anything is possible.

DELICATE

Yours is an interesting connection. There may be one special link that brought you together - despite the numerous potential conflicts that exist between you. Often this kind of dynamic can be tricky; it can feel hard to walk away from the amazing part of  your connection, but the challenges in this bond may become hard to deal with day-to-day. Honesty and transparency are a must - you two can have a meaningful relationship, but only if you’re willing to communicate and not play games. 

There is also a strong possibility that you were drawn together because you trigger a wound in each other that needs to be brought to the surface and worked through. But often with wounds, people become afraid of the pain and blame each other instead of communicating. 

In any case, it’s likely that there are obvious differences in your personalities and in the way you approach your life and relationships. If you two are willing to be direct and confront what has brought you together, then your dynamic can be healing for you both.

CHALLENGING

While this connection is challenging, that does not mean it’s insignificant or that it won’t work out. Anything is possible!

It’s important to be mindful of the fact that you two don’t share the kinds of connections that bring ease and intuitive understanding. This relationship will require you both to be very self-aware and committed to understanding one another, as you will have more to work through than you do with other bonds. 

Transparency and honesty are paramount; otherwise, the challenges inherent in your connection will take over. It can be difficult for this bond to endure because there isn’t a lot keeping you two connected or making you want to stay together. Many times, this type of connection is triggering a wound that needs to be recognized, addressed, and healed - which may be the purpose of this relationship.